I was asked last week to do an interview for  a Rogers TV program "In the Durham Region". They wanted my input about the less than encouraging RIDE statistics for the 2010 holiday season. This is a link to the segment.
http://www.rogerstv.com/page.aspx?lid=237&rid=2&gid=75672 

It gets a little easier talking about Mel each time I do it, even with strangers, and I guess eventually maybe even the 'triggers' wont make me cry. Maybe. I really hope I'm reaching these kids; sometimes its hard to tell. I appear to be holding their attention, but I hope that its sinking in and not falling on deaf ears...

On another note, I've decided to start adding some newer content to Mel's website : www.ourmelanie.com . If anyone would like to check out some pictures of my daughter, click on this link. If your speakers are on, you can hear the Butterfly Song playing during the intro...

Just got back from my 2nd time speaking as part of the TIPSY program. Great group of young people today, and it was quite emotional for me (again)...telling Melanie's story in this way is a difficult thing to do, but I feel some satisfaction that, I hope, at least one young person's life may change for the better (and yes, I mean "continue") because of it. One gentleman (a teacher I assume) who came with the group told me that, through speaking about her in this way, she continues to live on.

Yesterday (Friday Oct 22) was the first time in quite a while that I was given the oportunity to speak (in front of a group of strangers) about Melanie. I was invited to join St Michael's Hospital's TIPSY program (an acronym for "Think First Injury Prevention Strategy for Youth") and speak to a group of High School Students.
This is an excellent program that brings in groups of students (yesterday's group was from Kitchener) and shows them, through tours of the ER and Trauma units, videos, police discussions and speakers what its is like to be severely injured or worse - with the primary focus being on automobile-related injuries and deaths. So yesterday, I had the opportunity to tell Mel's story and share some details of her life and the accident that claimed her life.
This is an ongoing program and based on what I've seen and heard, is always well received by students and staff alike. Its a priviledge to be part of it and I hope to continue speaking there, as long as they'll have me.

I have to congratulate you for putting together such an excellent website.  It is a tribute to Melanie and has a very powerful message. I take care of too many patients who are injured as a result of alcohol.  Life changes in an instant in ways you can never imagine - for you and for those around you. Don't take a chance.  It isn't worth it.

Avery

Mel's Keys Documentary

I'm very new to the whole blog thing.  So i'm going to do my best here but I need to ask that you bare with me. 

Right now, what I'm going through is very much alcohol related.  So I'm going to try to think positively and use this blog as a good experience for me to express myself and for Melanie's story to be heard.  I'm going to take this opportunity to be brutally honest with myself, for one second of my life.  To my best ability I'm going to use very real words to explain how I am currently viewing this whole situation, to myself and to whomever decides to read this.

This site is for you, use it, visit it, twitter it, face book it, blog it  whatever you want and whatever you say does make a difference. Please leave some comments on the site and write some articles or blog a video or article. It is up to our users and guests to determine the success of safeandsobercanada.com 

I thank all of those who came out to the fundraiser and website launch on Sept 11, 2011 at the Port Whitby Marina. It was wonderful to see our regular supporters and some new ones. I enjoyed meeting some new people and sharing a nice night with some wonderful people. Our volunteers and supporters made it all possible and  a special thank you to them.  I also hope that you all walked away more aware of the issues that we face while driving. 

Please contribute to the website when you have a chance. It was designed so that anyone can add comments and content. 

Looking forward to seeing you all at the dance tomorow..

The first 50 people will receive a special gift so get there early.